Proving your level of commitment should never entail losing who you are, putting yourself in danger, or turning over control of your money, your bills, or your happiness
 No matter how honest or stable a person may seem, you cannot be sure about it in only a few months
 If a person shares a home with her mother and is not caring for her due to illness or disability, do not move into that person’s home
 Sexual compatibility is just as important as anything else.
 If a significant other cannot or will not communicate, it’s already over. It takes two to make a relationship work.
 In the attraction and chemistry department, if there aren’t any fireworks there’s nothing to celebrate
 If the decision to be together includes the consideration of rescuing that person, it’s either not right or not right now