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Category Archives: menopause

Livestreams

Posted on September 26, 2017 by Kelli Jae BaeliSeptember 26, 2017

The Girls in the Band is doing very well in the charts! Thank you, readers! Here’s the FB live video I did on 19Sept2017 TOPIC: sex in lesbian fiction, menopause as it pertains to readers and writers, an erotica project, and many other things. You could call it live STEAMing, I suppose. LOL. Friend me on Facebook! https://www.facebook.com/jaebaeli

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Sex & menopause in Lesbian Fiction

Posted on September 24, 2017 by Kelli Jae BaeliSeptember 24, 2017
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Posted in sex, lesbians, surgery, ethical dilemma, video, moral dilemma, Kelli Jae Baeli, Facebook, BOOKS, Random Act of Blindness, WRITING LIFE, WRITING, Social Psychology, novelwriting, Lesbian fiction genre, Fiction Writing, lesfic genre, bestseller, menopause, hysterectomy, The Girls in the Band, tentacle sex, Circling Uranus | Leave a reply

What Happened & What’s Happening

Posted on September 21, 2017 by Kelli Jae BaeliSeptember 24, 2017

Melissa and I did our first Facebook Live Stream on the 16th. Here it is. SUBJECTS: Hillary’s new book, my new releases, Melissa’s book projects, calling the cops last night because someone shot at our house.

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Posted in life, lesbians, surgery, Hillary Clinton, fear, AUTHORS, novels, police, Kelli Jae Baeli, harsh realities, BOOKS, speculative fiction genre, WRITING LIFE, indie publisher, danger, WRITING, science fiction genre, scifi genre, novellas, PUBLISHING, Lesbian fiction genre, lesfic genre, adventure genre, Apocalyptic, bestsellers, Melissa Walker-Baeli, menopause, hysterectomy, Go.Leave.Stay., The Girls in the Band, Circling Uranus, New Release, What Happened | 2 Replies

Projects, Pitfalls, Promise

Posted on July 31, 2017 by Kelli Jae BaeliSeptember 11, 2020

Shame on me. I haven’t posted a blog in a long time. SO much going on with us lately. Dealing with sudden health issues happening all at once, burned out, exhausted, feeling ill all the time, I was certainly not inspired to write. So I decided to take a 6-month sabbatical. It turned into 8 months when I found out in the middle of it I needed major surgery. So, I had to face my #2 biggest fear, (surgery) and I’ve been recovering from a full abdominal hysterectomy, and after almost 8 weeks, I’m still having some issues, which I … Continue reading →

Posted in fat, life, pain, surgery, distraction, change, novels, Kelli Jae Baeli, occupational hazard, harsh realities, novelist, injury, TRAVEL, WRITING LIFE, independent author, bad writing, AKA Investigations series, Building Character, FOOD & DRINK, novellas, novelwriting, Fiction Writing, marriage, methodology, adaptation, Rain Falls, Rain Falls, Pitfall, New Harbor Witches, Pooly Fall, Melissa Walker-Baeli, menopause, hysterectomy, organic, Go.Leave.Stay., Lesbian Zombies from Hell, 2 Dollar Shots, Life Everywhere | 2 Replies

Thoughts Before the Knife

Posted on May 24, 2017 by Kelli Jae BaeliSeptember 11, 2020

I am terrified. I am courageous. I have braved so many things that terrified me. Things I thought I’d never survive. And here I am, “having survove.” I understand that my fear is born of the unknown, where the most potent fear often makes camp. While this is a brand new experience that has no equal, no comparison, I know more now about what is happening to me than I ever have before. And each time I learn more, I have one more tool in my tote to get this job done. I say frequently that You have to be … Continue reading →

Posted in stress, life, surgery, meaning, fear, hope, harsh realities, gynecology, GYN, anxiety, strength, courage, menopause, hysterectomy | Leave a reply

Pre-Op

Posted on May 15, 2017 by Kelli Jae BaeliSeptember 11, 2020

Had my pre-op appointment today. All good. BP was best it’s been in a while- 128/82, pulse 80-something, EKG, heart normal sinus rhythm, took chest xrays, answered a hundred health questions, got more instructions, signed the consent form. I do feel very fortunate to be with the folks at Washington Regional. The best part of all that was, yes, I can take Xanax up to and including the day of surgery. LOL. Whew. That should help immensely. I was very stressed all day, just going to appointment, and I assume there will be more and more stress as the day … Continue reading →

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Fear, Wisdom & Demons

Posted on May 10, 2017 by Kelli Jae BaeliSeptember 11, 2020

Had my appointment with the surgeon this morning. Per his advice, decided on the Total Abdominal Hysterectomy, Bilateral Salpingo Oophoractomy and Indicated Procedures. (Seriously, that’s what it’s called. Removal of uterus, cervix, ovaries, and tubes.) The main consideration, and why I’m not doing laparoscopic procedure, is because if there is any hidden malignancy, and they do the (pardon the candor) mincing up of those organs for extraction, it could infect other organs He actually shared a story about another patient that got cancer that way. And died. Point taken. I’m sure that was his way of convincing me what the … Continue reading →

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Prefeeling

Posted on March 26, 2017 by Kelli Jae BaeliSeptember 11, 2020

It’s been a stressful week. I’ve been feeling bad for a while, now. On top of this bronchitis that has been hanging on for 3 months, and all the menopause stuff, a visit to the dentist and a scheduling of another dentist in Springfield (who uses gas, which is the only thing I’ve had a reasonably okay experience with) to have a tooth pulled and some cavities filled, and finally getting my allergy shots started, I’m NOW waiting on lab results for a uterine biopsy. Expect to know results of that and the ultrasounds on Wednesday. That part is huge … Continue reading →

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Operation Homostead & Dooflingywhatsit

Posted on February 24, 2017 by Kelli Jae BaeliAugust 5, 2017

While I’m battling The Change of Life, we are also dealing with A Change of Life. Major changes on the horizon, all of which we have chosen for ourselves, which of course, makes it easier to weather. Our decision to make homesteading our goal, had to begin with all the preliminaries. Where? When? How? We know we want to settle in central Wisconsin, mostly because Melissa is from that area, and around Chicago, and her family is all there. She needs to be close to her grandmother, who is well into her 90’s and has had some health scares. But Melissa has … Continue reading →

Posted in frustration, aggravation, stress, life, problem-solving, experience, growth, change, hope, Kelli Jae Baeli, DOMESTICA, harsh realities, moving, Relocation, TRAVEL, anxiety, HIGHLY SENSITIVE PERSON (HSP), risk, CHALLENGES & MISHAPS, marriage, sacrifice, courage, menopause | 2 Replies

That Whooshing Sound

Posted on December 19, 2016 by Kelli Jae BaeliDecember 23, 2016

Message in a bottle… After almost two years of struggle with the vicissitudes of Indie writing and publishing, I have, I believe, come up with a solution to all that has been vexing me, and keeping me from reaching the goals I have been working so hard to achieve, and all that has annihilated the joy to be found in the journey. With the new lease on life I got after my return from New Zealand, I have been focused mostly on getting my health back, but also in increasing and maintaining the momentum in my career, which I didn’t … Continue reading →

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