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Category Archives: Attraction

Virtual Strangers (a Play in One Act)

Kelli Jae Baeli Posted on December 26, 2011 by Kelli Jae BaeliMay 29, 2014

FADE IN: INT. – POPULAR SINGLES BAR – NIGHT In a bar specifically for singles who are seeking partners. patrons mill about, as is normal for most social establishments. But they are all moving about inside a white cardboard box. On the outside of the boxes, there is text. Each of them is also wearing a bag over their head.The text on the boxes is information about themselves. A profile. Sometimes there’s only one line of text, sometimes the surface of the boxes is filled up with a great deal of detail.One Boxed & Bagged person approaches another. B&B1 Hi. … Continue reading →

Posted in honesty, evergreen, harsh realities, socializing, HUMOR, strangers, dating, singlehood, RELATIONSHIPS, WRITING, truth, women, Attraction, Social Psychology, society, trust | Tagged nightmare dates, bag, box | 1 Reply

Kindred Romance

Kelli Jae Baeli Posted on July 29, 2011 by Kelli Jae BaeliMarch 11, 2013

This is a bit retroactive, but felt I should post something…. I‘m almost afraid to say it.  I think I’ve finally met someone normal. Stable. Real. A Kindred.    After the debacle of my last relationship, i am quite gun shy, and yet, this woman has managed to get around my defenses. It’s so easy to be in her company. Everything just seems to flow smoothly. It’s effortless to spend time with her, and I find myself feeling genuinely happy whenever she’s around. Kelly and I have been dating 3 to 4 times per week for the last month–long, all-nighters … Continue reading →

Posted in dating, chemistry, RELATIONSHIPS, Sociology, lesbians, EMOTIONS, Driving, kindred, happiness, romance, Attraction, hope, socializing, TRAVEL, HIGHLY SENSITIVE PERSON (HSP) | Leave a reply

8 Things I Learned From my Last Relationship

Kelli Jae Baeli Posted on June 26, 2011 by Kelli Jae BaeliDecember 6, 2011

  [1] Proving your level of commitment should never entail losing who you are, putting yourself in danger, or turning over control of your money, your bills, or your happiness [2] If you don’t naturally and easily fit into a persons life, nor they into yours, is either not right or not right now [3] No matter how honest or stable a person may seem, you cannot be sure about it in only a few months [4] If a person shares a home with her mother and is not caring for her due to illness or disability, do not move … Continue reading →

Posted in intimacy, chemistry, commitment, dating, sex, romance, Attraction, girlfriends, communication, domestic partnership | Leave a reply

Fat Chance: Lament of a Transplanted Single

Kelli Jae Baeli Posted on February 24, 2010 by Kelli Jae BaeliMarch 5, 2013

Before moving here, I never had to worry about what my friends thought of me. They knew me. Sometimes for 10 or 20 years–a few of them longer than that. And I was in relationships usually. Serial monogamist. So I didn’t have to worry about the impression I made, or if I was going to get laid anytime soon, or whether there was someone to confide in, play with…now, it’s all new. New State, new city, new people, and SINGLE, though not NEWLY SINGLE. Aside from a five month relationship, I’ve been single for what? 4 or 5 years? Add … Continue reading →

Posted in loneliness, awkwardness, fat, desperation, singlehood, dating, change, stress, Attraction, life, disillusionment, midlife crisis, sex, sadness, anxiety, lesbians, disability, SEXUALITY, women, harsh realities, chemistry, Internet Dating, moving, frustration, CHALLENGES & MISHAPS, love, socializing, Aging, EMOTIONS, angst, Relocation | Tagged diet, fat chance, Army | Leave a reply

Eye of the Beholder

Kelli Jae Baeli Posted on December 4, 2007 by Kelli Jae BaeliDecember 4, 2007

With regularity, I am confronted by various personal ad placers who accuse me of being shallow or superficial because I require a photo of someone first, before I will explore any potential relationship. There are many reasons I require this, not all of them about attraction, but for the purpose of this particular sore spot, I will address this as if it is exclusively an attraction issue.  The distinction to be had here, is that I don’t place ads to find friends. I have plenty of friends. I am seeking a lifemate. Therefore, the attraction factor is crucial. I don’t … Continue reading →

Posted in dating, Internet, beauty, Attraction, BRAIN | Tagged online | 1 Reply

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1/ The Nightmare Scenario SCOTUS is Plotting For the 2024 Election Takeover:

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If you bash Biden for something he cannot control, you are electing a Republican.

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