This is a bit retroactive, but felt I should post something….
I‘m almost afraid to say it.Â
I think I’ve finally met someone normal. Stable. Real. A Kindred.Â
After the debacle of my last relationship, i am quite gun shy, and yet, this woman has managed to get around my defenses. It’s so easy to be in her company. Everything just seems to flow smoothly. It’s effortless to spend time with her, and I find myself feeling genuinely happy whenever she’s around.
Kelly and I have been dating 3 to 4 times per week for the last month–long, all-nighters of talking and laughing and learning about each other, dinners out, socializing with friends, road trips…and I have to say, it’s been the BEST dating experience I’ve ever had. We’ve done tons of different things, had some great experiences. She is smart, talented, funny, genuine, sensitive, ethical. And as an added bonus, HOT. ;^) I am drawn to her like she’s a magnet and I’m made of heavy metal.
We have so much in common–even weird, esoteric things–that it seems a little bizarre. We’re both HSP’s, which means our brain architecture is very similar. This creates that feeling of having found a Kindred, I think.
I don’t have a crystal ball, so I can’t predict what will come of this, but what i do know with a surprising degree of confidence, is that she and I will probably be in each other’s lives from this point on.