no closets! You are who you are and you are fabulous as is! “What people think of you is none of your business” so I’ve heard from someone over 90 (who’s name I now forget…). and hey, I didn’t prejudge you, now did I? So you can’t say ‘everyone’ LOL…keep on keepin’ on, I’d say… Have a great day!

I feel your pain Jae!! That’s unbelievable in this era of ‘tolerance!’

This is why I don’t get into discussions about religion very often. (Sigh) I’m tired of hearing how wrong I am and I’m destined for Hell. The last thing I need is a bunch of Bible bangers trying to save me. I think I’m more agnostic though, cuz I just haven’t made up my mind what’s out there and who, if anything.. I’m gonna be like W.C. Fields, on my death bed I’ll be “looking for loopholes” just in case.

I’d be interested in how they are so sure that theirs is the only correct measure.

Heard it all before. Bores me so I just don’t go there.

I appreciate all of you chiming in–especially so fast! Thanks. But here’s the deal…(And I’m sure it’ll go in the book when i write more about this). I was proud to have come to the conclusion that I am a non-believer. Just like I was proud when i came to the conclusion that i was gay. It put things in perspective and gave me my power back. But sadly, there still are a MAJORITY of people in this nation, who have preconceived notions just like i did WHEN I WAS A CHRISTIAN about who atheists are. I would not have anything to do with one either. So i get it, from that viewpoint, though that viewpoint is based on lies. So i know that if i ever hope to find a partner, or even a date, they will have to get to know the other parts of me first, and then decide. Then if they have an idea of who i am on a personal level, and not just a word on a page, they will be less likely to eject me. Becuase some of their misconceptions will then be brought to light more naturally.

I HATE that i have to do this–in this day and age–but I do. I do NOT want to be alone the rest of my life.

I hear you Jae, and I genuinely feel for you….

I guess it’s like conceding a battle to win a war.

Yes, Brian, that’s exactly what it is!! Very succinctly put. (succinct is sometimes a challenge for me)…but That’s what I’m saying.

Anyway, want to wish you luck in your choice Jae (if you believe in luck! ). I wish people in 2009 wouldn’t be so damn judgemental…

And, hey Brian, don’t get me and Jae on the whole “luck” thing, right, Jae? LOL!

“there will be an answer, let it be.”

Oh Please! The luck thing…Tan, you know that’s in line as a book to be written. I will be consulting you. And quoting you.

Now, i will probably remove this post for the same reason I was complaining about IN THE POST ITSELF. But will repost on Supernatural Hypocrisy blog, which will now be the only place i will publicly discuss my non-belief.