One of my Achilles heels is that I have an underlying suspicion that i am incapable of falling in love again. I mean, researchers have told us that the chemical condition of being in love is analogous to OCD–being in love means you’re obsessed and obsession is fraught with problems, and not very healthy. You make bad decisions based on those chemicals, and not on what is actually true… So I’ve been, in recent years, going for the other facets of a good long term relationship–security, dependability, good communication, a shared sense of humor, begin treated well, being friends,  cultivating … Continue reading →