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Is it Goodreads or Badreaders?

Kelli Jae Baeli Posted on September 25, 2017 by Kelli Jae BaeliSeptember 25, 2017

I’ve always believed that every ill in our society falls under one or more of three categories: Greed, Ignorance or Zealotry. I was faced with an example of one or more of these while updating my author page on Goodreads. I came across a negative review, quite by accident, of one of my earlier books. Against my better judgment, I read it, and was horrified. The reviewer, obviously, did not like my book, and that’s fine, in and of itself, but this reviewer made statements that were patently false. She claimed the character in my book was “helping a pedophile.” … Continue reading →

Posted in truth, BOOKS, Book review, annoying people, Book Reviews, lies, WRITING LIFE, responsibility, independent author, disillusionment, Sensory Processing Sensitivity, Uncategorized, abuse, HIGHLY SENSITIVE PERSON (HSP), frustration, anger, Social Psychology, aggravation, Kelli Jae Baeli, critics, rudeness, honesty, Sociology, Behavior, harsh realities, Giving it Away, Human Nature, liars, reviews | 4 Replies

Drive-by Marketing? Really?

Kelli Jae Baeli Posted on June 17, 2016 by Kelli Jae BaeliAugust 5, 2017

A commenter on one of the sites I market to, objected to my promotions, (and I responded as forthrightly as I could)>. COMMENTER: I am seeing “Attachment Unavailable This attachment may have been removed or the perso who shared it may not have permission to share it with you” on both is post and the immediately preceeding two previous by Kelli Jae Baeil. Thefirst post by Kelli Jae Baeil, smells like drive-by marketing. -Three- posts following that promo post, each of which consists entirely of “Attachment Unavailable” makes it look even more like drive-by exploitation. I wrote the rant below … Continue reading →

Posted in aggravation, independent author, rudeness, indie publisher, TIME, PUBLISHING, Kelli Jae Baeli, New Harbor Witches, occupational hazard, writer, novelist, BOOKS, Amazon, writing business, WRITING LIFE | Leave a reply

If a Woodchuck Could Chuck YOU.

Kelli Jae Baeli Posted on November 28, 2011 by Kelli Jae BaeliMarch 11, 2013

Was meeting a friend at a local pub I like a lot, even though it’s often noisy as hell, and I picked out a booth to wait for my friend to arrive. The waitress gave me a glare when I sat down at the table that still had the paid ticket and the dirty dishes. I had never had a rude waitress there, so gave her the benefit of the doubt. Maybe she wasn’t looking at me. Then it took her a full five minutes to get over there and clean the table off, and I wondered. When I tried … Continue reading →

Posted in conversations, RELATIONSHIPS, triggers, conflict, PEEVES, Behavior, HIGHLY SENSITIVE PERSON (HSP), PSYCHOLOGY, FOOD & DRINK, annoying people, Sociology, conversation, CHALLENGES & MISHAPS, alcohol, EMOTIONS, society, restaurants, aggravation, harsh realities, life, bad customer service, rudeness | Tagged cider, manager | Leave a reply

EXTENDED STRESS Hotel.

Kelli Jae Baeli Posted on April 2, 2011 by Kelli Jae BaeliDecember 5, 2011

My Cherryot was loaded to capacity, with the things I thought I’d need for two months, until an apartment became available.   At Extended Stay, I checked in with desk clerk–started to unload, and had to take several things up first (5 trips in elevator) before I noticed that there was a luggage cart in front with a tattooed guy leaning on it talking to another guy. “Oh a luggage cart!” I said. “I need that.” He said he only had a couple of things and rushed off to get his task done so I could have it. Meantime, I … Continue reading →

Posted in moving, stress, sensitivity, anger, Colorado, rudeness, panic, betrayal, Cherryot, RELATIONSHIPS, Xanax, Biscuit, fatigue, sadness, domestic violence, conflict, disability, money, anxiety, Driving, iPhone, harsh realities, apartment, fear, cats, bad customer service, Monkey, desperation, conversations, frustration, Sensory Processing Sensitivity, annoying people, crisis, depression, HIGHLY SENSITIVE PERSON (HSP), disillusionment | Tagged fire alarm, Arby's, luggage, hotel, hysteria, packing | Leave a reply

Maintenance Mike & The Domesticated Harpy

Kelli Jae Baeli Posted on October 12, 2009 by Kelli Jae BaeliOctober 12, 2009

My morning started off rudely. I was awakened first by the construction noises nearby on another patio. And i drifted in and out of sleep, still needing another few hours. Then a banging at my door set my heart to pounding. And the person kept banging. I hurried to open the door, my pistol behind my back as usual, (I am a single woman who lives alone. I make no apologies) and opened the door. The construction guy was standing there with three other guys (already a little daunting for a woman alone) and announced that I had to move … Continue reading →

Posted in coffee, rudeness, door | Tagged maintenance, pajamas, Harpy, bread, courtesy | Leave a reply

Turn, Turn, Turn

Kelli Jae Baeli Posted on July 21, 2009 by Kelli Jae BaeliMarch 6, 2013

{reposted from Facebook} I just had a really unsettling experience. I’m trying right now to just calm my thumping heart, and take a breath. One thing that is no secret about me, is that I don’t have many secrets. I am pretty open. I have to be, because I am a creative person who produces creative material. But I don’t pretend that I’m so special that i don’t have a day to day life with day to day struggles and victories that i wish to share with those in my life. Nor do I pretend that human nature is always … Continue reading →

Posted in Behavior, music, betrayal, quirks, society, anxiety, past, ethics, Sensory Processing Sensitivity, exes, sadness, frustration, HIGHLY SENSITIVE PERSON (HSP), Human Nature, TIME, nostalgia, sensitivity, friendship, honesty, stress, Social Psychology, angst, harsh realities, life, PHILOSOPHY, PSYCHOLOGY, self-awareness, rudeness, Sociology, annoying people, pariah, RELATIONSHIPS, CHALLENGES & MISHAPS, self-respect, triggers, conflict, EMOTIONS, anger, Facebook | Tagged secrets | 27 Replies

Ditto

Kelli Jae Baeli Posted on February 20, 2009 by Kelli Jae BaeliMarch 3, 2013

The word “Ditto” means another of the same, a duplicate, a copy. What I have been experiencing here, with people, is ditto. Just when I might feel my faith in people resurrecting, a little ditto happens and that faith is relegated to ashes again. Is everyone a ditto? I can’t possibly be the only one who feels this way, so why can’t I ever find those people? And why can’t one of them be my partner so that I can stop stumbling over the corpses of my own discontent? Writing can be solitary, and writing can be thankless. Real writers … Continue reading →

Posted in angst, rudeness, Sociology, PSYCHOLOGY, RELATIONSHIPS, CHALLENGES & MISHAPS, annoying people, anxiety, conflict, EMOTIONS, disillusionment, Sensory Processing Sensitivity, Behavior, ethics, HIGHLY SENSITIVE PERSON (HSP), PTSD, writer, sensitivity, lesbians, honesty, WRITING, Human Nature, harsh realities, SEXUALITY, women, communication, frustration, Social Psychology, Internet Dating, self-awareness, dating, PHILOSOPHY, romance, socializing, stress, BRAIN | Tagged ditto, nightmare dates | 7 Replies

Beware the Drooping Cerebellum

Kelli Jae Baeli Posted on March 25, 2008 by Kelli Jae BaeliMarch 25, 2008

..a cautionary tale. Maybe.One of my ex girlfriends has this weird and rare condition where her cerebellum is drooping down too far and impinging on the brain stem. For real. It’s called Chiari. Now for a long time, even before this diagnosis, I discovered that I didn’t want to talk to her anymore because every conversation consisted of her condescending to me at every turn. Gone was that delightful, brilliant young woman who so fascinated me with her thoughts on things…she had become sort of…well, an arrogant prick. (sorry). For more insight on this, see Phone a Friend. I put … Continue reading →

Posted in rudeness, friendship, BRAIN, HUMOR | Tagged cerebellum, chiari, arrogance, haughtiness, mean | 2 Replies

Door Christians

Kelli Jae Baeli Posted on June 12, 2003 by Kelli Jae BaeliMarch 8, 2013

Well here’s my latest little adventure…I’m one of those people who has to have a certain amount of control over my environment to be happy. When that gets disrupted, it fucks with my Chi, as I like to say. As a songwriter, I often spend long hours working on tracking my music in my home studio. I was in the middle of recording a new song and had already started over twice, and really had it going good this time when…. …there was a knock at the door. My dog, Giz, went to barking, (‘Cause it fucks with his Chi, … Continue reading →

Posted in zealotry, Christianity, ATHEISM, frustration, society, Sociology, HUMOR, DOMESTICA, CHALLENGES & MISHAPS, aggravation, triggers, EMOTIONS, life, PEEVES, satire, rudeness, privacy, RIGHTS, door, strangers, personal space, Sensory Processing Sensitivity, soliciting, RELATIONSHIPS, HIGHLY SENSITIVE PERSON (HSP), religious zealots, PSYCHOLOGY, RELIGION, annoying people | Tagged interruption | Leave a reply

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It's one thing to say you think someone "hung the moon" but that generally means they are blind and deluded, and then the relationship fails because they say you changed, when really, they never saw you at all...The real test is if someone sees all your flaws or blemishes or individual differences, and they still think you hung the moon."

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